need help

Hello ,
i am 43 i have 3 kids and i live in Ireland. i am Israeli married to an Irish man we lived 10 years in israel in the north side of the country boarding with Lebannon and lived a life of fear trying to survive the wars. up until 3 years ago when our house was bumed during the war so we moved to ireland to build a new life. since we lost the house we kept moving from one rented house to another and never settled in one place. Our kids are very sensetive and they dont take changes very well. If thats not bad enough my husbend left us 6 weeks ago saying he canot take the stress any more. so I moved again to another house with my 3 kids. We canot find a peace of mind non of the houses make us feel at home and we do not feel conneceted to any place. we keep moving from one place to another and now on top of everything i have to deal with my kids amotional state. my kids are Sean age 15 , Elie age 12, kim age 8. Life for us is overwhelming and i am affraid for my kids and for myself. Please Oprah i would like to ask you to help me how to deal wit this all
Thank you
Iris